Fabulous People in London (or usually in London):

Abigail Hart Luscious and fabulous London BBW escort

Claire Black Unique and special East London fetishist; professional domination

Faye Summers Fantastic American darling, escort and highly skilled switch

Goddess Cleo dark but sensual London BDSM goddess; the sweetest and friendliest kind of sadist

Kinky Alex To my mind, one of the top fetish escorts in the UK, now often found abroad too

London Faerie East London “Ethical Pervert” and Tantric BDSM specialist, also to be found in Prague and running workshops with me in Berlin

Louisa Knight Excellent recent new friend, luxury submissive escort

Mistress Scarlett Thorne Hilarious London/Wales dominatrix specialising in cross-dressing

Ms Slide Fabulous, funny, political and dark; “cheerful sadist” Hastings dominatrix

Ms Tytania “Shibari mistress extraordinaire”; artist, writer and terrifying dominatrix

Mz Jane “Rock n Roll Kick Arse Femme Dyke Dominatrix”; petite, dark, beautiful and FIERCE

Rebecca Lowrie “sacred sexual expansion and exploration”; Rebecca is a sweetie! So warm-hearted.

Rosalie O’Connor Funny, sweet and beautiful Irish escort in London; favourite threesome partner for meeee!

Sophia Duvall my favourite American-in-London!

The Arielle: Elegant and vicious: an exquisitely gorgeous London dominatrix

Vena Ramphal “Sex Muse” and passion coach. A therapist/coach, but specializing in romance/the erotic . Lovely.


Fantastic Berlin friends:

Emma Steel Incredible Dominant

Johanna Weber Another fabulous Dominant

Marlene Tantra, BDSM, especially rope bondage


Workshops and events UK/Europe:

Sacred Pleasures London and beyond, with London Faerie and associates

Alchemy-Eros Berlin and beyond, with Ruby May and colleagues


Fabulous people elsewhere in the UK and Ireland:

Catriona O’Brien Irish international escort: sweet, petite and heaps of fun

HotF2M Cute and sexy trans guy escort in Leeds: bi, open-minded, kinky: brilliant.

Jewel: beautiful, sweet and sexy: lovely Edinburgh person, a very sparkling independent companion lady

Laura Lee: Well-respected Scotland lady: experienced ex-model Glasgow out-call and touring escort, exceptional sex worker rights advocate


Fabulous people in North America:

Devorah Reine Bay Area fetish specialist and my number 1 online crush

Elle Fox *adorable* trans girl, escorting in NYC and beyond

Isabell Night find out for yourself why this gal is one of NYC’s top escorts

Leana Lane my favourite person in Washington DC. and she should be yours too.

Liara Roux unreasonably cute, you have been warned

Malika Fantasy ”your suicide girl next door” – this tattooed lady is the hottest thing in Toronto

Pearl Love Lee Toronto, San Francisco, Vienna and Berlin: your post-modern lover worldwide

Robin Ardeur top NYC kinky companion; talented, tattooed… wow.


Fabulous people in Australia:

Miss Fleur Sydney-based Fantasy and Fetish Escort; glamourous, kinky and AWESOME

Gala Vanting Australian touring pro BDSM switch; erotic imaginist, sex educator, pornographer and more.


Stuff for other Sex Workers:

BesD German sex worker rights group

English Collective of Prostitutes; Campaigning and lobbying organisation for sex workers’ rights; legal advice and support

Hydra Berlin-based sex worker rights project, lobbying and outreach with venue-based workers offering advice

Open Doors Sexual Health project for Sex Industry providers of any kind in East London

Please Me Tease Me Online adult marketing, by sex industry professionals, based in Berlin

SAAFE Support and advice for escorts (other sex workers too)

SCOT-PEP : Sex Worker Rights project in Scotland; working to overturn planned criminalisation of clients.

Sex Worker Open University; sex worker rights project, run for and by sex workers

Ugly Mugs Bad Client List for UK service providers

X-talk; Free English classes for Migrant Sex Workers


Stuff for everyone

Bish : learn loads of things you didn’t know you needed to know about sex, relationships and sexual health

Coin-operated Girl: Stand-up and Public Speaking by fabulous former sex worker Melody BBW (Miranda Kane)

SWAAY Sex Work Activists, Allies and You: Furry Girl (see above) ‘s US based sex worker rights advocacy project

TLC Trust Connecting people with disabilities with sex workers


Filthy and Beautiful Capitalism

Dotties Delights American site for beautiful burlesque and vintage inspired lingerie

Karolina Laskowska Probably some of the most beautiful lingerie available in the UK right now.

Lascivious Lingerie; gorgeous, delicious and rather more erotically aspirational lingerie

Other Nature Alternative and vegan sex shop in Berlin

Sh! ;London’s women’s erotic emporium

Très Bonjour Haute Couture Latex Berlin

What Katie Did; Vintage inspired lingerie and stockings supplier



Crashpad: American ethical queer porn

Dreams of Spanking beautiful fairtrade spanking, corporal punishment and discipline fantasies by Pandora Blake

Filament; (no more!) Magazine for ladies who like to look at hot men (for a change!)

Furry Girl Furry American independent pornographer/ sex worker rights activist/ super-cool blogger

IFeelMyself Ethical and Erotic Female Masturbation site… actually really hot. I love this.

Karma Pervs ethical fundraising porn for sex-positive, queer and kink-friendly causes by Jiz Lee

NimuesWorld hot members, clips and pictures site by kinky geek girl with a shy exhibitionist streak

Pink Label TV Amazing new-to-me queer porn site full of fucking-hot people fucking. Beautiful

Urban Chick Supremacy Cell amazing ethical Female Supremacy porn: hot AND political (my favourite combination)