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An Erotic Education

Beautiful White Rabbit Boutique

  I mentioned during my talk at White Rabbit (the picture below is the lovely WR Boutique) last week that there’s no “school for sex workers” – no diploma program where you learn all the things you need to know for this industry: business skills, sexual health, counselling skills, let alone anything involving your kegels. But it’s equally true that there’s nowhere... Read More

Blog Carnival Day 2: My workshops and activism…

feminist fightback

Last weekend I did a flying visit to London to co-facilitate a workshop for a full day of feminist Sex and Relationships Education for adults called The S Word. I have been asked to run this or very similar workshops several times in recent months, so I’d like to tell you a little about it here, since many people reading this blog may be more familiar with my delicious one-to-one... Read More

The Politics of Protection, or Why I won’t do OWO

condoms2

Since this blog is partly to reach out and make contact with clients, I have definately made a blogging fail already: many clients will have mentally switched off or clicked away already- these are clients who seek OWO. Oral With Out (protection) is one of my personal buttons-you-press-for-a-rant, and that button has been sorely tested twice in the last 24 hours. I’ll tell... Read More